For those of you who have never heard about the "hard to get" behavior,
you should know this a fantastic way of eliciting interest from anybody
you wish to get. In the case of a break up, it can even be more
powerful. Basically, the idea is to introduce a few unpredictability and
mystery in your behavior. Naturally, you should not become totally
impossible to follow or understand, because it would be as detrimental
as being excessively predictable or available. Being hard to get works well because by doing so, you increase
your value and do not appear as someone needy. You also become a
challenge for other people, because they feel they cannot easily control
you. Like with any challenge, it sparks off excitement and desire,
which is an essential component in a relationship.
In the context of getting your ex back, playing hard to get also
involves doing otherwise than during your previous relationship. It is
important to make your ex see that he/she did not really know you and
that you are actually much more interesting than you looked previously.
Do not try to
change everything, but rather try to heighten a few components and to
improve your visual aspect. For women, this can also be done through an
improved make-up. For men, try a new, more refined fragrance. Even small
changes can have a large impact, because a person who used to know you
will note them immediately. this can make wonders in renewing the
interest from your ex.
If you are too easy to control, you lose all your value and
become only some other boring person. It may be particularly detrimental
while dating your ex, since he/she has already been with you
previously. If you have nothing fresh to put forward, chances are that
your ex will never be interested in coming back with you. On the
contrary, if you are no longer easy to read, you will spark off some
interest and excitement. Do not forget that if your ex went away, he/she
will not come back to retrieve the exact same person as previously. By
creating a kind of mystery zone, you introduce a challenge and make your
ex want to find out who you really are.
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Be careful however not to become conceited and selfish. You should think
of the hard to get attitude as a manner to deserve the time of your ex,
by providing him/her with excitation and challenge. The best manner to
act the correct way is to try to figure out what kind of person you
would like to be with if you were in your ex's shoes. You would likely
not want to be with someone tiresome who always agree with you, but
chances are that an excessively egocentric and hard person would also
make you run away.Do not give too much, and let your ex slowly discover you
once more. He/she must sense that you are now someone who must be
deserved, and that going back in a relationship with you would be a lot
more stimulating than before.
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